Success Diary (Day 18)

How to utilize your financial gifts (2) --- Don't destroy your fortune any more

1. Avoid ourselves to destroy our finance, then we have to change the link of fortune, the link of making money, remove the negative affection of money.
Fortune is a power, fortune is what you want to achieve.

2. How to change? The best way to change is to link the most painful scenario to your current situation (lack of money)

A: List all my pain because of the lack of money in my life. What I lost, what I missed, what I cost ......
a: I can't help parents when they are in fiancial difficulty.
b: I have to keep in silent when I know parents owe relatives and friends a lot of money but they can't do any further.
c: I have to tolerate the bad words and suspect words come out friends mouth when I went to borrow moeny from them
d: I don't get enough respects from girl friend
e: I can't achieve my dream to take parents to travel around the world
f: I can't buy a best house for parents in any city they want to live
g: I can't get my dream house where I can live in
h: I can't buy a nice Benz other luxury brand car to express my life meaning
i: I can't contribute/donate to the people from the poor area
j: I have to cook everyday at home to save a few bucks per day
k: I can't buy any expensive stuff that girl friend wants to have
l: I even can't live in a house seperately, but have to share it with others.
m: I have to take tram to the office to save the parking fee every month

To avoid these pains, please give yourself more pain right now to avoid them

B: What will figure out when you think about money.
a: I can pay off all my credit cards and other debts
b: I drive to office everyday, never mind the parking fee
c: I'll go to buy a $60K+ Europe car
d: I'll send all the money back that I borrowed from parents, and buy a house in Chenzhou for them.
e: Have money I can do quite a lot of things I hope I could achieve
f: Do a lot of things what I want, instead of working everyday at any working time


C: Write down what you heard about money before
a: With too much money, people easily change to behaviour bad
b: Money doesn't mean everything. There are a lot of things that money can't buy
c: Money is everything, everyone does everything is just for money. If you have money, you would have everything.
d: With money, everything becomes easy.
e: Money means power, money can buy anything you want including power.
f: Money is evil.

D: If money is not a problem anymore in your life, how it would be?
a: I will buy a nice house for parents and afford them enough money to live
b: I will buy a luxury house with luxury cars and other facilities equiped
c: I will travel around the cities around the world
d: I will buy as many property as I want in any cities
e: I will donate 5 million a year to the society to help the community in Education and Medical.

3. List all the believes what had blocked/limited you to make money.
a. That's too expensive
b. What's for, when you get rich, you've already been too old to enjoy
c. You don't have all the necessory conditions to become successful, to be financial free

4. The new believes should be like:
A. Money is the symbol which stands how much services I've done for others
B. I only need do the following two things to make me big fortune:
a: I need feel fortune comparing to those people living in the very poor areas, I have to appreciate everything around me
b: Keep giving. The more you give, the more you'll receive.

5. The steps to change

A: Make sure to have the the exact money figure you have to achieve, that figure should be much much more than just enough.
B: Adjust your brain everyday to get used to be very rich in mind first. Treat yourself as a rich guy (RAS)
C: Find out the best example to simulate, and find out the most effective tool to achieve your goal.
a: Write down all the things you like to do most
b: And make sure when you do those things, it create a great value for others, so you attractive them, you can make them join with you to invest together......
c: How to do them repeatedl, and through doing them, you can get great rewards
d: How to smartly do them, after doing them, after creating the value for others, you can get your profit as well.

D: You need have the feeling that you deserve all the money/fortune you get (You need donate at least 10% you've made to others, you have to contribute while you receiving, you need use 10% to pay your debt, you need use 10% to invest).

E: You need make yourself get used to the rich reality to contribute to your friends, your society, or to do some funny things.


Exercise:
1. Try to adjust yourself to get used to the feeling of being rich.
2. List 3 ideas everyday to make money by using the above approaches to select the effective tools ( they might be in Services, business or investment)


**** Appreciation is one the essential attitude to become successful. *******